My husbandy doesn't love having a joint account

My husbandy doesn’t love having a joint account with me. It’s because I have a bit of a spending problem, then when I see both of our paychecks together and how much cash the people I was with and I have, I can’t help but to splurge a little! Okay, okay, maybe not a little. Anyways, my husbandy is seemingly getting more annoyed by the amount of cash I am spending each week on things that are not dire. She seems to guess it would be better to save up for a holiday or for an emergency fund. She also mentions wanting to start our kid’s college funds. All of that stuff is important too, however I guess a lot of that can wait, besides, I don’t buy stuff that often, usually only once a week. I think I crossed the line though with my last purchase though, because now my husbandy is giving me the silent treatment. Why? Well I will already admit that I spent more than I usually do, however I guess it is worth it! Anyways, I had a stranger stop me on the street and he was holding a sign that directed to his Heating and A/C store, then he recommended I go and take a look in there. I wasn’t originally going to, although he offered a discount for anything I saw, so I had to look. I ended up walking out with a portable cooling system and a smart temperature control, but my husbandy was not ecstatic to say the least. She questioned why the people I was with and I even needed a portable a/c when ours work just fine, and well I didn’t entirely have an answer for that. I bought the smart temperature control because it looks cool, and he didn’t love that answer either. Oh well, I think I’ll keep the Heating and A/C unit in my room if he doesn’t want to use it.
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