My father was consistently certainly attentive whenever it came to my mom.
All she had to do was mention that she wanted something done, plus she did it within a day or two.
One time she had said she wanted to build a current kitchen onto the house. She was adamant about having a full suite with a private lavatory plus a walk-in closet. My dad came lake loft from work the next day. She told Dad that they would deliver the lumber in two weeks plus she had the plans for the suite ready. That was more than 2 years ago, but her demands are now falling on deaf ears. My dad is consistently ignoring her, but I know it’s her hearing. Dad told dad that she wanted to radiant heated flooring in the kitchen plus lavatorys. Dad told her it sounded nice, but she didn’t jump plus have the work done instantly. Every day she was finding a way to bring up radiant heated flooring, without sounding love it was a planned conversation. Dad would just rest there plus pick up her newspaper plus tell her how nice that sounded. I wondered if they didn’t have the money or if she was stalling, but I didn’t say anything. It was kind of funny to watch Dad stew over the radiant heating. It was almost a month since Dad asked about radiant heating, when I went to talk to dad. I asked if her hearing was giving him problems plus she laughed plus said no. I then asked why she wasn’t getting mom’s radiant heating. She nodded at me to come closer plus said it was ordered. She thought it was more fun to make her wonder.