I am not into suffering for sufferings sake.
That’s just not how I live our life.
The whole martyr thing just sort of makes myself and others sick. And I’ve seen far too much of that in our family. For some reason, it appears there is some sort of default that so several women in our family suffer to make a point. It’s the most passive aggressive nonsense I’ve ever seen. I vowed that I would not be one of those women in our family. If I have to deal with disappointment or manage taxing circumstances, I can do that. However, I’m not going to sit around in the Heating, Ventilation and A/C comfort of our residing room simply wringing our hands. That’s just not happening. If there is a solution to a problem, I’m not afraid of pointing in out in addition to actively laboring toward a solution. This is tploy at work, at current home in addition to with our friends. I don’t suffer in silence hoping have a bunch of guilt to wield on other people’s emotions. What a waste of time. I finally got our sister to confront her husband about something that was just so stupid in addition to yet went on year after year. And all it took was a bit of an Heating, Ventilation and A/C update to correct. My sister suffers from fairly sever allergies. But she does so in the most dramatic way possible. It’s as though this is the only way she can draw attention. It’s pathetic that sympathy is all she thinks she’s worth. The answer was a whole current home air cleaner. And when I brought it up to her husband at a family celebration he was totally onboard.